Hand, Foot & Mouth - The Never Ending Virus

Unfortunately we brought home a nasty souvenir from California. We got home late late Thursday night and by Friday morning Max was running a temp and complaining of a sore throat.  He had white blisters on his tonsils and felt miserable.  Saturday afternoon he broke out it red sores all over his hands, forearms, feet, legs and mouth.  He looked awful.  The next day Sam started feeling really tired and slept all afternoon.  By Monday he also had fever and polka dots.  He hasn't had nearly as many as Max, but his are way more painful.  He has been a whiny mess.  Socks, blankets, dogs . . . anything that touches his sores makes him scream like he's dying.  And holy hell, when he stepped on a lego, I thought the house was going to come down.

As you can tell, it's been a great few days and to top it all off, Bo started running fever last night.  Yay.  It's going to be a fun rest of the week.

Update . . .Bo's fever also turned into hand, foot and mouth.  His sores were the fewest in number but he missed almost a week of school just like his brothers.

2nd update . . . Sam & Max developed some other whart like flesh colored bumps on their stomachs. After weeks and weeks of them not going away, and Max;s beginning to spread onto his upper thigh, I finally took them to the doctor and they got diagnosed with Molluscusm.  Apparently it is in the same family as hand, foot and mouth.  Sam's sores eventually turned red and sore.  It is now June 24th and they are finally starting to go away.

3rd update . . . It is now the end of June and all of the boys are starting to lose their nails - fingernails and toe nails.  They are separating from the cuticle at the base of the nail, turning white and just dying and falling off.  The boys keep picking them off because they aren't even attached anymore.  It's really quite disturbing.  I thought maybe they were all vitamin or mineral deficient in something but after a little research I found that this is another side effect of really bad cases of HF&M. It is called nail shedding and it is really not cool.

California - Universal Studios

Universal Studios was awesome.  The Transformers ride was AMAZING!!!  A-M-A-Z-I-N-G!!  It was by far all of our favorite ride the entire trip.  I still can't get over how cool the special effects were.  I wish I had more pictures but this is all I have.  The rides are all inside so you can't see them.  The park is basically just a bunch of big buildings which are not exciting to take pictures of.  However, once you enter the ride - pure 3D & 4D epicness.  

 

California - Knotts Berry Farm

I am so glad we did Lego Land before Knotts Berry.  The biggest roller coaster at Lego Land was the small one at Knotts Berry.  Had we done the parks in reverse, I think the boys would have been way more hesitant to attack the big rides. but instead, they were already warmed up and primed to hit every ride they could.  Size or thrill factor did not scare them.  Grandpa and I on the other hand, were not as adventurous.  

The first ride of the day was a roller coaster that had individually spinning cars.  The cars twisted and spun as the roller coaster sped along the tracks.  

The park was basically deserted so we never had to wait in any lines.  Wes took advantage of this by riding on all the insane rides too.  Nobody would go with him but he had a blast.  This one shot him out of the gate from zero to mach gazillion in seconds. His summed it up with, "that was intense."
 

Bo and Sam rode on their first loopy loop roller coaster.  I love that they are fearless.  Max was too short to ride this one but he would have if he was allowed.  He is fearless too.

Bo was the only one tall enough to ride this vertical drop.  It takes you to the top and free falls you to the bottom.  No thank you.

California - Lego Land

It has always been Grandma's dream to take the boys to Disney.  After lots of research we all decided to skip Disney this time but to go to Lego Land, Knotts Berry Farm, and Universal Studios. I think we made the right decision.  We all had a blast.  

Marcia rented us all a house in Carlsbad with a pool.  This was our home base for 5 days.  We did Lego Land on Thursday & Friday, explored La Jolla and the coastal highway on Saturday, spent Sunday at the beach, and then hit the Lego Land water park on Monday.  

 Lego Land Sea Life Center = Lame!!

 Sea Lions in La Jolla

Wrestling

First day of wrestling -Good for Bo & Sam.  Not so good for Max.  Actually it was good for him until he was paired with a girl.  Then he went on strike.

Second day - great for all 3 of them.

A few weeks in - Sam & Max are still sticking it out but with a ton of prodding each night.  Bo threw in the towel.  He can't stand touching someone he doesn't know.

End of season - Max & Sam stuck it out.  Max has more fire in his belly to win and did great at the end of year tournament.  He never let up.  Sam, on the other hand, smiled the whole time and went through the motions but is definitely a lover not a fighter.

Wes coached again this year and was president of the Interior Youth Wrestling Club for the 2nd year in a row.  I was the Club Registrar and am looking forward to finding a replacement for both of us next year.

Couldn't Have Said It Better Myself

10 things I wish I’d known about raising a boy

When you have a girl, you know that you can always fall back on your own childhood memories to guide you as a parent. But unless you grew up with a brother, there's a good chance that parts of raising a boy can take you by surprise. From the sports obsession to the penis comparisons, here are 10 things I wish I'd known about bringing up boys.

1. There will be planes, trains and automobiles.

Even if you stock your nursery with mixed-gender toys like baby dolls and play kitchens, odds are matchbox cars and trucks will multiply on their own in your home, boats will line your bathtub and train track will loop around your floor. Little boys adore anything that flies, sails, drives, digs or mixes. “I could have never anticipated the amount of fun he can have with just a few cars,” said mom of two Dana McCranie. “I love watching his little fingers wrapped around two cars and imagining what he sees as he drives them around with animation and sound effects.”

2. Boys don’t stop moving.

From the moment they come bouncing into your bed at 5:30 in the morning until they pass out at bedtime, boys go. Sometimes it seems like they have only two speeds — fast and faster. This means that your toddler could be sitting on the floor shaking a rattle one minute and when you turn your head, he will have summitted the dining room table. He may not ever slow down, but you’ll learn to pick up the pace. “Give them goals,” said dad of three Randolph RoVino. “Give them the tools. Give them encouragement to use the energy that they have. And have your sneakers on!”

3. Clothes shopping will be a piece of cake.

A girl’s wardrobe can be sizable. But boys? Well, there are pants, sneakers and T-shirts. There are no outfits. Everything, essentially, goes together. “There may be fewer options in the store, but I’ll happily dress a boy over a girl any day,” said mom of one Bonnie Vengrow. “The palette is simple, the clothes are cute, and he’ll let me dress him with no fuss.”

4. His fascination with his penis starts sooner than you think.

Chalk it up to the cave man instinct, but boys play with their penises practically from birth. (And those baby erections? Whoa.) Once he figures out it’s there, it’ll be everything you can do to keep his hands from drifting down there all the time. “I remember other moms warning me when I had my first son, ‘Don't worry if he touches his thing all the time. It's normal,’” said mom of two Melissa Phipps. “I'm still not sure if my 8-year-old is in the normal range, but whenever he had a free moment, he whips it out. Ironically, the only time he doesn't have his hand on his penis is when he's using the toilet and should be holding it to aim correctly. That's when it can't be tamed.”

5. Roughhousing is innate.

Boys are physical. There's the jumping off furniture, the rolling on each other, the "hug" that turns into a full-body running tackle. It's often how they connect and express affection. “My sons constantly have to touch each other and be near each other,” said mom of two Stacy Genovese. “We recently finished our basement and it’s a huge playroom but yet they both have to play right on top of each other and then it’s the inevitable ‘He hit me!’, ‘No, he hit him first!’”

Exhausting? Yes. Normal and healthy? Absolutely. This kind of physical interaction can foster positive relationships, boost the body's feel-good chemicals and promote intelligence — even if it means stuff around the house is going to get broken.

6. You’ll probably make a trip to the emergency room.

There are boys and there are coffee tables and these two things often add up to stitches. You will learn to anticipate the most dangerous risks (and you might want to buy cushioned corners for the coffee table before your son can even pull up), but there will be a time when you're just a second too late and you land up driving to the ER. Don’t blame yourself — it's a rite of passage for all boy moms. “It's hard not to feel ashamed when it happens, but don't worry. Other parents sympathize,” Phipps said.

7. Pee will be everywhere. Everywhere.

On the floor. Behind the toilet. On the wall. All over the seat that they neglected to lift up. Apparently, it takes time and an attention span not to spray the entire bathroom while urinating. “Peeing everywhere never stops — argh!,” said mom Shirlie Sharpe. “The only thing that changes is that as they get bigger, their range increases.” Your best bet: Keep some Clorox wipes at the ready and remind yourself that unless there's poop involved, your child won't ever need to sit on a dirty public toilet seat. Oh, and it's incredibly easy for them to pee behind a tree in the park.

8. You’ll learn not to compare your son to girls.

Watch a girl the same age as your nonstop ball of energy sit quietly and use glitter glue for 45 minutes and you may want to cry. Girls often reach milestones earlier and excel at many essential school skills like reading and, er, sitting still. “The girls in my son Ian’s class and the daughters of my friends are way more advanced than my boys,” Genovese said. “They’re just more aware of the world around them. One friend with girls the same ages as my boys said, ‘For me, it’s all mental. For you, it’s all physical.‘ And that’s exactly right.”

Boys can also approach things differently, which is part of the fun. Case in point: “My girls never thought to make puzzles in the nude!” said mom of three Gina Ferrara.

9. The goofiness starts early.

There will be days when you watch your son with his friends and you just won't get it. Boy humor can be extra goofy and the potty humor starts as soon as they can talk. “Who knew the love of fart jokes was part of a boy's development?” said Phipps. “At some point after learning to talk, farts will be all your little one talks about. I am not sure when the phase ends.” So trust that you will be told that your dinner tastes like poop. You'll be called poopy head and poopy pants. If you laugh (and it's often hard not to) or scold, you just give the poop talk more value. So try to keep a straight face at least until you can vent on Facebook.

10. Boys adore their moms.

There's a strong and consistent love that comes from boys from the get-go — and stays there through the long haul. “Whenever you come home, it’s like being a rock star in your own home,” Genovese said.

Phipps agrees, “The thing I will miss most when my boys grow up is the adoring way they look at me and stroke my face and hair. They are such little romantics. I will say to my 6-year-old, ‘You're cute’ and he'll respond ‘You're cuter!’ It almost makes it worth being the only female in an all-male household.”

Written By:  Holly Pevzner (from USA Today Parents)

By:  Holly Pevzner

School Art Night

Every year Weller Elementary has an Art Night where kids can show off some of their artwork. I may be biased but I think Bo & Sam have the best ones.